The present research includes some scientists' research studies and the views of great thinkers who have contributed to the formation of Kazakh family values. In this investigation, it has been studied that children with autistic spectrum disorders would cause changes in family values, affect the education of siblings, lead to changes in relationship between the couples and with the children. Statistical data of divorces as the result of conflicts in the familes have been shown. It was identified that single mothers were often stressed without receiving support in bringing up and educating the child with autism, following R. Lazarus coping test. Based to the analysis of the obtained statistic results, the strategies that led to disharmonic and destructive relationships of mothers in families with autistic child, were grouped. Based on the results of the research, three psychological types of mothers who bring up children with autism were identified and given a psychological portrait.